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Manage Your Emotions

Posted by Nathan Oliver on Monday, June 13, 2011, In : Relationships 



Here we want to discuss some very practical tips on how to manage your emotions as adapted from materials by Gary J. Oliver on Emotional Relational Intelligence (ERQ).  The first step is to take a time out. Don’t let emotions escalate to the point that people are no longer talking, screaming or ignoring each other. Step back and create space either PHYSICALLY or INTERNALLY .  Set a reasonable time limit (20 minutes) when both parties agree to reconvene. 

 

The next step may seem obvi...


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Emotional Benefits of Exercise – South Florida

Posted by Nathan Oliver on Monday, February 21, 2011, In : Valuing Self 


    
     We often completely dismiss the profound connection that exists between the physical and the emotional in. Yet when it comes to any variety of emotional struggles that we are having, it is often best to first look to the physical.  This allows one to cancel out any possible physical effects on our emotional states.

            If you have not had a recent physical, that is often a great first step.  Next it is important to look at your sleep, diet and exercise.  Those three a...


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Emotional Intelligence Presentation Jan. 29 West Palm Beach

Posted by Nathan Oliver on Tuesday, January 25, 2011, In : Valuing Self 


What is Emotional Intelligence?

Gary Oliver defines emotional intelligence (EQ) as:

“The ability to be aware of, recognize and understand our own feelings and those of others and to constructively manage those emotions in ourselves and in our relationships.”  Emotional intelligence has been shown to be a greater predictor of success in life, jobs, marriage, parenting and relationships than IQ.  EQ begins with having an accurate self-assessment and awareness which means knowing what ou...


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